I tell this story every year, each year a little differently because each year a different part of my own story resonates a little bit more with me. I think we all change as the years go by, and the things that are important now, and were important in the past, change.
I am a Dutch girl, raised primarily in California. I am a mom of six (Soren, Nick, Christian, Cole, Tess & Dane). I am the wife of an amazing soldier, Dave. I love to snowboard, swim, kayak (this is new!), garden, photograph and quilt. I am my families memory keeper, not just my little family, but for my extended family as well.
I used to have an, if not important, a well-paying career in the corporate world. I worked for Hewlett-Packard, US Bankcorp and United Healthcare. And then. Then we moved one time too many. I had one child too many. My resume fell apart. I moved into the discard pile and it turned my life upside down. A huge part of my identity came from my work “me”. A huge part of my self-worth came from financially contributing to my family.
I am blessed to have a wonderful husband. One who stood strong next to me and held me up when I felt weak, powerless, useless. I learned to make do with less, a lot less, and became a very creative cook, shopper, seamstress and I made every day trips into adventures (PetSmart entertained my crew for hours!). Still, I missed work.
I scoured the internet looking for jobs, but back in 2007, with a newborn on my lap, it was close to impossible in rural North Carolina. I found solace in iVillage, in a new mom’s group. I found I wasn’t alone in missing work, the great debate over stay-at-home vs. working-moms was minor, we all loved & supported each other. And then. Then message boards changed. Instead of just text, you could add signatures. Pictures that automatically attached at the bottom of each post. I was enthralled.
I love taking photo’s! I spent hours taking the perfect photo of Dane and photoshopping it to be even cuter (as if that was needed!). I had photoshop thanks to my previous corporate marketing work, and our family business in New Mexico printing alien t-shirts for tourists. Soon the signatures became more than just pictures, they became works of art and I found a new message board on iVillage. A Signature Maker board!
Suddenly I found myself sucked into creating beautiful signatures with moms & babies & photoshop. Within seconds I found digital scrapbooking, and elements that would make those signatures shine. I was hooked. Within a month I was lurking on Digital Scrapbooking sites, admiring Designers, layouts and all the things photoshop could do besides edit photo’s and create t-shirts.
I entered the second-ever Next Designer Contest at Stone Accents Studio in 2008. And I struggled. It took every ounce of my being to create kits in the assigned color palettes, but I did it! And by a miracle, at the end, I placed third! Good enough to become a really real Designer at The Studio! Sadly, soon after becoming a really, real Designer, the original owner of Stone Accents Studio (JulieO) needed to retire to care for her family. I could not let it close. Not when I’d found my calling!
I offered to buy it, in installments of course, and I spent hours learning the ins & outs & errors of running a website and webstore. My dreams were filled with code, new software, hardware, retaining fleeing Designers, contracts, php, html… and the list goes on. I did learn. I made changes. The site grew. The team grew. And now, today, it is my baby: The Studio! I couldn’t be more proud, or more excited of what we have become and what we are becoming.
I now invite all of you to join us in our Annual Next Designer Competition and Annual Layout Artist Contest, and our new Play Along (for fun). The main link is: Annual Birthday Bash + Competitions
- Sign-ups start now!
- The first, pre-game, warm-up competition starts September 16.
- The first challenges will be posted October 3rd.
Note: You must be signed-up to compete in the Next Designer Competition and/or the Layout Artist Contest by October 3rd.
I can’t resist, I fell into the deep well of my early Design memories and I’ve always had a fondness for my very first Alpha. I’m sharing it today, because I still rather like it. Probably because it is Fall, my favorite season. Please forgive any imperfections and ENJOY!
What a great story, Toiny! I loved reading about your search and courage, as you stepped out into an unknown world. Congratulations on all you have accomplished since you took over ownership of theStudio! I’m looking forward to the fun-filled Designer and Layout Artist Competitions! They are always very inspiring!
I, too, enjoyed your life story and road to how you got to where you are now!! Inspiring indeed and congrats on your success!
You are a jem to share that story. What an encouragement. I have felt that pain.
I always wondered how or why you made the transition from your outside job to the one you have now. You should be very proud of yourself … you’ve done amazing things in creating theStudio and gathering the family of designers together. AND, of course, I can’t wait to see who our newest designers will be.
Your story is quite similar to mine, although I’m not as far as you yet. I always worked outdoors, since about a year I am home, which I find very hard. But I’m getting there. Your story however does bring back memories. The first kit I ever had from you was Say Cheese. Remember? I loved it! I still have it. I don’t know how to add an image to this answer, not even sure if it is possible, but I do remember I was sad when you didn’t design anymore! You were one of my favorite designers when I started out!
Say Cheese is my favorite too! It was just such a happy kit. It was great for scrapping those photo’s of the kids when they little in all their outfits with all their colorful toys.
Yay, that’s the one! I still love it!
You are GREAT for becoming a Designer and still afer 2008-2016 is a excellent fabulous haul. I was willing to try in 2009 but couldn’t now I can’t because of shame of failing… You did good and should be PROUD of your WORK it is EXCELLENT…. love Lynda xxx00
Don’t be afraid to fail Lynda! Everyone has to start at the beginning. Nobody starts and is perfect. Give it a whirl, it’s fun, relaxing and (warning) addicting!
How inspirational, thank you Toiny. Good luck in all you do.
Faith
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I remember that year’s design contest well! 🙂 I’m soo happy that SAS moved over to the very capable and talented hands of Toiny Westberry! 🙂 ? HUGS! You’ve done an amazing job making The Studio what it is today! ??
Thank you Sherah!
What a great story. I am happy for the Next Designer Contest because it brough Heartstrings Scrap Art to DSS.
I agree! So happy we have Bryony & her templates. I can’t believe it’s already been a year!
Toiny, You should be very proud of all you have accomplished and that is a lot! You’re still so young and I can’t even imagine what life still has in store for you. But I’ll lay odds on it, that it will be wonderful! Congratulations on your baby, “The Studio!!”
I’m proud of you! Thank you for giving me a place to relax, have fun and a second home! <3
Love and hugs, Lisa
A big SMOOCH to you Lisa!
Right back at you!! <3
Amazing tale and I remember SAS well, I think we all got started in digital scrapping about the same time…LOL! Although I don’t create kits….I do create some layouts….but I get lots of enjoyment out of using all the freebies and seeing all the inspirations. Now that I am retired and stay at home….I don’t have the money (nor the storage) to purchase all that I like (ROFL)! Thanks so much for a great place to do all this, I spend almost all of my extra (?) money at the Studio! Love all the designers and their generosity too! Have a terrific week ahead! Hugs! Mat
Be sure to check out the BIG PRIZE in the play along category this year (just for posting a layout, you may win a 3TB EHD… those freebies & layouts take up space!).
Thank you for sharing your story, Toiny. I love hearing how people get started in this awesome craft & yours is the first I’ve heard from an owner. It’s wonderful that you took that plunge & bought the Studio — & brought it to where it is today! Congrats & Happy Anniversary!!
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